Creating a Calm December: 5 Ways Moms Can Slow Down

December has a way of sweeping us up in its whirlwind—holiday events, family gatherings, gift shopping, cooking, traveling, school activities, and the everyday realities of motherhood. The month arrives with twinkle lights and big expectations, and suddenly we’re carrying the weight of creating “magic” for everyone else. As mothers, we often rush through the season instead of resting in it.

But December was never meant to drain us. It’s a month of anticipation, reflection, and deep joy. A month where we’re invited to slow down, breathe, and savor the beauty of simple things. If you’re longing for a calmer Christmas season, you’re not alone—and it’s absolutely possible.

Here are five intentional ways you can slow down this December and return to a rhythm of peace, purpose, and presence.

1. Begin Each Day Centered in Faith

The calm you crave begins with where your attention lands each morning.

Before the rush of breakfast, errands, homeschooling, or work, give yourself a few quiet minutes with God. Whether it’s reading a short devotional, listening to worship music, or simply whispering a prayer while the coffee brews, these moments become anchors for your day.

A simple morning rhythm might look like:

  • Lighting a candle

  • Reading one scripture

  • Taking three deep breaths

  • Saying a short prayer of surrender: “Lord, guide my steps today.”

This doesn’t need to be long or complicated. Small moments of presence create profound shifts in your mindset and help you respond to the day with intention rather than overwhelm. When your soul is centered, everything else feels more manageable.

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2. Simplify Your Holiday Expectations

Moms often feel the pressure to create a magazine-worthy Christmas—Pinterest-perfect décor, endless handmade gifts, elaborate traditions, themed baking days, and a calendar filled with activities.

But here’s the truth: your children don’t need perfection; they need presence.

Ask yourself:

  • What actually matters to my family?

  • What traditions do we love?

  • What can we release without guilt?

Maybe this year the decorations stay simple. Maybe you choose two traditions instead of twelve. Maybe you let go of the idea of saying yes to every event or every request.

Simplifying is not failure—it’s wisdom. When you release unrealistic expectations, you create room for joy, rest, and connection.

3. Nourish Your Body With Intention

December is full of indulgences—cookies, cocoa, rich meals, and late nights. And while enjoying seasonal treats is part of the fun, your body still needs care, especially as a mom carrying the mental, emotional, and physical load of the holidays.

Slowing down means fueling yourself intentionally, not perfectly.

Try:

  • Adding one nutrient-dense meal each day

  • Starting your morning with a protein-rich shake

  • Prioritizing hydration

  • Choosing supplements that support energy, immunity, and stress

When your body feels supported, your mind becomes clearer, your patience expands, and your stress levels decrease. A nourished mama is a grounded mama.

(And of course—you can seamlessly highlight Isagenix shakes, adaptogens, or greens here as gentle invitations to your offerings.)

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4. Create Rhythms of Rest, Not Just Moments

Rest isn’t something you squeeze in when everything else is done—rest is something you build into the foundation of your day.

This December, try creating rhythms that help your nervous system unwind:

  • A slow evening routine with soft lighting

  • Family reading time instead of a TV marathon

  • A daily walk outside, even for 10 minutes

  • A “no multitasking” block each afternoon

  • A tech-free hour after the kids go to bed

Small rhythms practiced consistently can transform the pace of your life. Your nervous system doesn’t need perfection—it needs predictability, softness, and space to breathe.

5. Embrace the Sacredness of Simple Moments

The magic of December is not in the big things—it’s in the gentle, everyday moments we often rush past.

Slowing down means noticing:

  • The way your child’s face lights up when the tree glows

  • The warmth of a mug between your hands

  • The quiet of early mornings before the house wakes

  • The sound of laughter filling your home

  • The kind of peace only God can give in the middle of ordinary chaos

These are the moments that truly shape memories. When you pause to savor them, December becomes less about doing and more about being.

A Calm December Is a Choice—And a Gift

You don’t need permission to slow down. You don’t need to earn rest. And you don’t need to carry December on your shoulders.

This season is an invitation—one that whispers:

“Come back to yourself. Come back to what matters most. Come back to peace.”

When you choose calm, you create a home atmosphere that feels grounding for your children, your partner, and your own heart. You show your family that slowing down is not only allowed—it’s beautiful.

This December, may you release the pressure, soften your pace, nourish your body, root yourself in faith, and savor the season with intention.

A calm December begins with one simple choice: to breathe deeply and walk gently through this month—one moment at a time.

How will you create a calm december?!

Kailee Holbert

I’m a Holistic Lifestylist specializing in Women’s & Children’s Wellness as well as a Fertility, Postpartum, & Bereavement Doula, PLUS a Family Legacy Financial Planner! I am helping mothers and fathers create their village through harmonious whole health and healing amidst the busyness of parenthood. Serving women, mothers, and families across New York and worldwide, I am dedicated to providing the utmost tender love and nurturing care via holistic wellness, doula support, and financial planning!

https://www.nurturedwellnesscenter.com
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